Newly married

Hello po, just got married and no exp sa sex before. Is it ok po bang tumanggi kay husband if may gusto Syang I pagawa na d pa ako comfortable like oral sex? Thank you in advance!

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Hi yes pwedeng tumanggi kung hindi kaya... respeto nalang din sa choice ng partner.. kahit si hubby pwede tumanggi kung may gusto ka ipagawa sakanya... SKL kami ni hubby turning 10years na married ngayon July.. hindi kami comfortable sa OralSx.. ayaw ko.. kahit ako ang oral niya😅 tinry namin pero d ko talaga kaya.. ahaha.. so ibang pleasure nalang ginagawa namin . so far Ok naman sa amin. d namin hinahanap hehe

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You can say no po and communicate lng sa hubby nyo. But maybe in the near future po you will say yes na to that? hehe you know men like oral sex, they really do, but not all women (of us) enjoy doing it. Pero as a married couple, meron tlagang sexual needs na gusto rin natin ma fulfill o ma experience. If he's really a good man and husband, he will understand na di ka pa ready as of now.

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it's your body and your choice po if hindi kayo comfortable pwede nyupo Yun pagusapan then ipaunawa Kay Mr. kung bakit ayaw mo Yun gawin ...and also Yun po kasi ay maari may Maka apekto sa health nyupo if ginawa nyu yon ng hindi Tama...at kung mahal ka din nya po maiintindihan ka nya at sa disisyon mopo

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communication lang mi, 3 yrs pa lang kameng kasal. pero di talaga din kaya natatakot ako malock jaw. kasi dati na akong may issue sa panga. naiintindihan naman nya dahil alam nyang may health issue ako. pero minsan pag nadadala ng feelings dinadahan dahan na lang. pero di pa din palagi. kahit saken nya gawin ayaw ko pa din.

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Hi! Absolutely yes. Pwede kang tumanggi especially kung hindi ka comfortable. Kausapin mo c hubby about this. Communication lagi, eventually you will discover healthy and comfortable ways to be physically intimate. hope this helps!

Hi Mi, absolutely YES! Try to Communicate lang Mi and explain to him na di ka comfortable. I did that to my husband. There are many other things po na pwede pong eexplore na both kayong magiging comfy and satisfied. All the best po Mi . Aja!

pwede ka po tumanggi..yung partner ko rin po dati my pinapagawa sya sakin ,tinry ko naman pero di ko tlga kinaya kya kinausap ko sya ng masinsinan at naintindihan nman nya..

oo naman mii pwede ka naman tumanggi. madami naman pwede i-explore aside from the things na hindi ka kumportable. just let your hubby know and understand.

yes. if you are not comfortable with it, usap kayo ni hubby mo ng maayos para no issues. para din maging open kayo sa isa't isa.

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wala naman po magagawa ang hubby mo kung ayaw mo.basta sabihin mo sa kanya ng mahinahon.wag pagalit