Talk about your finances with your partner. You may suggest if you could handle the budget but never demand sa paghawak ng ATM nya. Sabihin na nating responsibilidad nya kayo ng pamilya mo but the fact remains that its his and he has control over it. Basta hindi naman kayo pinababayan, hayaan mo nalang yun sa kanya. Kami ni hubby, I give him freedom to manage his money. Pero he wants me to handle our finances, thanks God. Yung sweldo ko, pera ko. Yung sweldo nya, pera namin😅 Happy wife, happy life.
Hindi ko po hinahawakan ATM ng partner ko. Better if we have separate savings, and excess money for expenses. Pero nagbibigay sya sakin when needed at sya din nagbabayad sa electricity, water, groceries para sa bahay and needs ni baby.
Salamat po.
Vin Xavier