Gender Disappointment is Real
Pashare po 2 girls Pregnant 19 weeks GENDER DISAPPOINTMENT IS REAL PLEASE NO TO HARSH WORDS. All I need right now is comforting and encouraging words from you. I have been battling gender disappointment right now. My 3rd pregnancy is unplanned, didn't expect na mabuntis ko since I have irregular cycles. I have 2 daughters already and now pregnant with another girl. I cried very ugly because I was expecting a baby boy for now. We have been praying for a baby boy ever since lalo na ung panganay kong anak who is always telling me that she'll be having a baby brother. I expected a boy because of the difference ng paglilihi ko sa 2 daughters ko. Sa ngayon kc very light ang pregnancy ko. I dreamed of becoming a boy momma tlga kaya kht nasa tiyan plng baby ko may name na siya from us. I even bought some boy stuffs for the baby kc un tlga instinct ko. Just today, we had our scan and the sono told me it's a baby girl, there are still chances pa nmn daw na mabago ang gender since maliit pa c baby. Ung ultrasound din is medyo malabo Kya Sabi ko bka pwede ulitin sabi nya pag malaki na lng dw tiyan ko. I cried really hard lalo na nung nasa sasakyan na kmi. I have been praying for this boy. I have been wanting him badly. I had a guilt feeling about this feeling which is it's uncontrolled. This would be my last baby since CS ako sa previous pregnancies ko. My hopes for having a boy is now unclear. I loss my dreamed baby boy. To those who suffered GD like me, how do you dealt with it? How do you cope with this feeling. I know it's unfair to my unborn baby to feel this way but I am mourning of my unfulfilled baby boy . I know this too shall pass, will definitely learn to accept the reality especially pag lumabas na si baby. I want you to share your experiences too like mine. Will read all your comments, comforting words from you. Will fight this feeling and I hope matatanggap ko din the soonest. Thank you for reading.