Visit during confinement

Other than your own family and in laws, do you let others like relatives etc visit you during your confinement ? And do you let them hold your baby? Is it ok to be against people visiting during confinement, and to say no to them holding your baby? Except your own family, in law and grandparents ? I have yet to deliver but i want to set boundaries for myself and my child. But you know, old people or even aunties aunties. They wont understand. #FTM