live with parents or In-laws?

Need your advice as soon to be mom,, currently nasa situation ako na living with the in-laws, having doubts kung matutulungan nila ako if naglabor nako at lumabas na si baby, this is my first newborn and next week na due ko, balak ko sana is to stay muna kami ni husband sa parents ko after manganak para atleast d ako magalangan magpatulong especially na scheduled CS ako, mahirap pa gumalaw on the first few weeks. naopen ko ito sa parents ko and my sister also agreed na kung pwede ko mapakiusapan ang inlaws ko to stay for atleast a month man lang sa parents ko, (syempre kahit papano diba mga mumshie mahihiya kayo patulong sa inlaws lalo na bago palang kami kasal at tapos magkakaanak pa.. snabihan ako ng mom ko na sabihin k husband kung pwede pakiusapan ang in laws para magstay muna kami sa mom ko kaso d ko pa masabi kay husband kasi baka maisip niya na i lack trust in his family (which is, aminado ako na they will hesitate to help me, maliban nalang kung maghingi ako ng tulong mismo personally sakanila.. kumbaga wlang kusang loob na tulong from them.) *physical help ang gusto ko especially ceasarean ako and a first time mom.. hope you can advise or give me an encouragement mga moms thank you!#1stimemom #advicepls #firstbaby #pregnancy #momcommunity

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go with your instinct momsh. mahirap pa tlaga gumalaw pag cs. mas comfortable din.. 🙂