"How to know if he’s the one God has for you"

-Nabasa ko lang to sa fb mga mommies and I just want to share it with all of you here in TAP- "How to know if he’s the one God has for you" With so many different words used to describe your relationship status. Dating? Courting? Talking to each other? You oftentimes forget that the primary purpose of that season is to evaluate whether or not he is the one whom God has for you. Even though you might have an idea of what you consider ‘husband material’, you might not know what signs to look for. And the last thing you want is to let your feelings get in the way of your true happiness. While it easy to define that he’s not the one based on his actions, there are also signs that will show you that he is husband material. 10 signs He is the one God has for you : 1.His action speaks louder than words ? Many men will speak about all the things they want to do, but only a few will actually follow up and put in the work. And they will only do so for the woman they value. When God sends you a man, that man will have integrity and stand by his word. 2. He knows what he wants ? A man who knows what he wants will show you by stating his #relationshipgoals early on without being afraid that you might get too hopeful. He will have a vision for the relationship he is looking for and who he wants in it. 3. He pursues you ? One of the many signs that you are dating someone that just isn’t that into you is that he will not put in an effort to be with you. Every interaction is initiated by you and oftentimes every date is planned by you too. However, when God has sent you the right man, then he will actively pursue you. He will call, he will text and he will enjoy planning a date or two to make you happy. Because one of the most obvious signs from God about relationships is that God will end the relationship if the guy is not the one and keep it flourishing if he is the one. 4. He’s your answered prayer ? While I really don’t want to encourage any of you to treat God like a genie who will answer unrealistic expectations of a man. I want to encourage you that God knows you and knows the man he has for you. If your sincere prayer for a godly man includes godly characteristics, then you will know God sent your mate because he possesses them. 5. The relationship glorifies God ? How to know if God wants you to be with someone? Easy. If being with him doesn’t compromise your relationship with God, but rather strengthens it. 6. He makes you love yourself ?There is a very real assumption that if you feel comfortable around your partner without make-up than he’s the one. And that’s very true! But I believe you have to drop more than just your make-up. Namely the walls around your heart. Because one way how to know if he’s the one God has for you is when you feel completely comfortable being vulnerable! 7. You become part of each other’s life ? While your days don’t revolve around each other, they definitely include each other. Before he makes plans with his friends for the week, he ensures that you get to spend time with each other too. And whenever he has exciting news to share or something to talk about you’re the first person that comes to his mind. I know this might sound cheesy, but the best relationships are the ones where the couple considers each other as best friends. You enjoy spending time together, you enjoy talking for hours and you can laugh about the same things. You don’t just like each other romantically, but also as a person. 8. You make each other better ? Fact is every relationship, no matter if romantic or not, should add to your life and not subtract from it. And the man you want to spend the rest of your life with should be a safe haven for your thoughts, your dreams, and your journey. The last thing you want is to be with someone that doesn’t support or believes in you. Does he have your back when life is hard? Does He boost your confidence when you feel like giving up? If he’s the one for you, he will support you face challenges and feel like giving up. 9. You trust him ? In a thriving relationship, your fears and doubts will vanish the more time you spend together. You will start to trust him, not just in the relationship but with your life, goals, and future. The man you commit to should be a good leader that you enjoy following. 10. He respects you ?Too often we think respecting someone only refers to the way we speak to them. However, in relationships respect is part of the foundation you build on and can make or break it. It can be hard to determine if he is the one God has for you, but this list should help you. Shalom! Lyn Speaks