Husband don’t put in as much effort

Hi mummies~ anyone’s hubby dun put in as much or worry as much for your LO? During my maternity, my hubby hardly feeds baby, come back from work also hardly play with baby. Even though I know he loves our baby very very much. Now I’m just back to work from maternity, I kept checking security cameras (only my maid n baby at home. knowing my maid is a phone addict, I will check Incase), but my hubby seems to be so relax.. he doesn’t checks. Even on days he is WFH, he also hardly checks on baby (he says he is working which I understand). Am I too paranoid . He gets upset with I speak to him abt this

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Same thing. Sometimes when I hear about how other husbands do night feeds or being hands on I can’t help but wonder why only my husband doesn’t?

Probably he is too stress at work? Or stress from other stressor? Or maybe your husband just dunnoe how to interact with newborn?

got more worse when i saw my hubby chatting with viet lady. be bring her out for dinner & etc. she replaced me while im preg & confinement

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6mo ago

Oh dear.. hope everything is ok now? Has he change?

Yes MINE TOO. don't even record sleep or milk intake when he is the one helping. Men are like that

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my husband dont help too.. so i do everything. on confinement now.

cos he knows you will check, and you are too reliable for him

I must agree, MOST MEN ARE LIKE THAT!

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