My spouse and myself are both working. We are in a situation that we currently unable to support additional cost on domestic helper. We would need someone to take care of our child who is below 1 year old. Therefore, we would have to depend on our family members in looking after

Mummy wants to be pampered too. It should be alright to close one eye once in a while to let people we trust to take over our lo

You shouldnt feel guilty; just make sure you set the boundaries upfront so you know baby is taken care off the way you pref

Actually depends. If that breaks makes me more energetic to take care of my baby then I will not feel guilty

No, at times we do need our break. Most of the time I'll ask my parents or in-laws to take care

Yes and no. I feel guilty of not spending time with my baby but at the same, i need my rest too

It depends. Sometimes my parents enjoy and want to be with their grandchildren

Initially I was guilty, but I got used to having me time

Yes but you need to push past it to look after yourself

Yes. I am only happy when i see my family is happy too