Maybe a big fat NO . I came frm a complicated abusive family , parents divorced when i was very young . Mum were still wrking at Flextronics thru the night even when shes preggy w the 3rd child . My dad was hardly working . I started wrking at the age of 14 , failed my Ns . But managed to get a Nitec . All im saying , i missed out alot in my childhood and adolescent years . I hv been supporting myself eversince then . I dont want my kid/s to go through the rough patch like me . I'd give my all to let them be kids and grow up healthily and never to deprive of anything else . I bet my husb wud agree with mie on this ..