Afraid of giving birth 😔

Hi mommies! I'm on my 30 weeks already and I'm reading a lot of birthing related stories especially about PAIN and LABOR. My husband and I kinda argue about it because he doesn't want me to read about those kind of things but I'm a FTM so i research on what to do and what not. Any advice? It would really help thank you! I'M REALLY SCARED ABOUT GIVING BIRTH!!!! #firstbaby #pleasehelp #pregnancy #advicepls