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Hey there! I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling lonely during your pregnancy journey. It's not uncommon for some friendships to change or fade away during this time, especially if your friends are not in the same stage of life as you. Pregnancy can be a very consuming and overwhelming experience, and not everyone will understand what you're going through. Some friends may struggle to relate to the changes you're experiencing, and it's possible that they simply don't know how to support you. However, it's important to remember that not all friendships will fade after delivering. Some friends may step up and become even more supportive once your baby arrives. Additionally, you may also find new connections with other moms who are going through similar experiences. In the meantime, it might be helpful to seek out pregnancy support groups or classes where you can connect with other expectant mothers. Surrounding yourself with people who understand what you're going through can provide a sense of companionship and understanding. And remember, it's okay to outgrow certain friendships and prioritize those that truly support and uplift you during this special time in your life. You deserve to have people around you who celebrate and cherish this journey with you. Stay strong, mama! https://invl.io/cll6she
Hi mummy to be, Truly understand how you feel especially you’re currently preggy. However, don’t felt sad as you are entering motherhood and phasing out to another trajectories as your friends who are single or just married. Looking at another perspective perhaps your friends want to let you rest more instead of outing during your pregnancy. Also, is a good time to enjoy your time with your spouse before the arrival of your baby. Once your baby arrived there are much more to focus on. Yea/No to say it will be same after delivery, you can keep in touch with your friends and make new friends. Don’t worry, there are many people who comes and goes in our life. Those who cherish our friendships will stay. Please take care.
idk about U but for me, when I got married I put them least priority.... my family first.... I'll be there when they need me of course.... everyone is grown...they have their own stuff to deal with.. so don't take it too hard on urself if they can't make time for U... Ur family and Ur child is important right now.
for me I don't really care as well... and after your baby grows up and goes to school. maybe you will have mummies friend from your child's classmate as well.
After delivering, you’ll be the one to respond in days or even no respond (forgotten)… unless you have an entire kampong to care for your baby😅.
My only friends now is my infant son and my husband hehe..a little lonely sometimes but I’ve gotten used to it. It’ll be okay (:
Actually I feel that generally motherhood can get a bit lonely. But always remember to reach out when you want someone to talk to!
It's OK, as we grow older we have lesser friends. Hard to maintain after being a parent too, time will be given to your child
My kid is my best friend, and being alone is when I can truly relax. Life will never be as it once was.
It doesn't bother me at all, just prioritise what matters most to you i.e. family ❤️