I think depende po yan how you will mold your children's way of thinking. Kasi you have your reasons naman bakit ganon yung magiging set-up for moments na nagtitipid talaga kayo. Kesa naman separate pero ipinangutang nyo lang naman. 4 yrs old naman na si first born, medyo nakakaintindi na yan. You have celebrated naman for the past 3 years na sya (well definitely dahil sya palang that time). Pero if sa tingin mo medyo mahihirapan si first born to understand, you really have to make savings for their birthdays kahit naman simple celebration lang just to make them special by next year.
Sobrang laking impact nian momsh. Kami nga, dalawa lang kamo magkapatid ang layo pa ng birthdays namin pero palaging si bunso lang ang natataong may handa. Maiipon yun habang lumalaki sila.
Meron. Mas special kung solo celebration. Pangit sa pakiramdam yung moment mo sana pero may kahati ka.