is it okay to bottle feed instead of breastfeeding?

im a ftm and my newborn’s almost a month old. ive tried breastfeeding during the first few weeks but stopped due to poor latch (due to inverted/flat nipple) that caused trauma to my nipples. im currently bottle feeding with BM and i cant help but feel guilty and super lost about not breastfeeding my LO. ive thought about seeing a lactation consultant but just didnt feel like it’s necessary. theres also concerns about going out and having to pump, making sure to feed just on time so the milk doesnt go to waste and stuff like that. #advicepls

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I’m a ftm and I had my fair share of challenges feeding my pre-term newborn last year. I would suggest seeing a lactation consultant, it was the best decision I made and it was worth every $ spent! There are nipple shields you can use. Even when it comes to pumping it’s so important to get the right size for the flanges. The standard flanges that come with the pump rarely fits. A lactation consultant can help with that. If breastfeeding your baby is what you really want, give it another try! Otherwise, formula is perfectly fine. But most importantly of course is your mental health - happy mama, healthy baby!

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