I had my first child our of wedlock. I took responsiblity out of my own action. And before I got married I ask a few religious teacher of the necessary. Though at the back of my mind people would think bad of my pregnancy/child/married. Praises to Allah that my child did not face any negative thoughts. My family, in laws, close friends do love my daughter and pampered her. Whatever she wants, she get. I am thankful. I don't share much of my pregnancy during this period until I am married and give birth to my first child. I share only to our love ones and of course, workplace (but still no judgement) I was treated nicely too. I am also glad that I do not have a lot of Malay/Muslim friends around. Because I knew what's the outcome.
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