To keep or to terminate?

I’m 6weeks pregnant. Informed my fiancè about it last week & he wanted me to terminate the pregnancy. Reasons - he is not ready & unstable. His point, It is an early stage of pregnancy so terminating it is fine. 🙄 I’m a career woman in my 30s. It has been giving me a lot of stress then I began to spot/bleed at week 5. Doc puts me on 2 weeks progesterone to support the pregnancy.. I’m so confused & lost. #pleasehelp

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It happened to me in the past. I never walked out of the guilt. Eventually the marriage ended as well. Let the doc give u the best options. Abortion is very draining on the body. Took me more than a year to recover physically and nearly a decade to recover from the pain. Now I’m expecting my 3rd… 2nd one lost due to miscarriage and I cannot stress how precious a gift the baby is…

You can decide if you want to keep the baby urself since it sounds like ur fiancé is not dependable. I would suggest to leave this guy too if you both don’t have the same life goals. And he’s quite cruel to want to terminate the pregnancy! Who would have the heart to take away an innocent life of their own. Please reconsider this guy. Take good care of urself! ❤️💪🏻

sorry to say this. but I think guys who say this is very heartless. the baby is also his flesh and blood. what if his parents abort him? guys will nv be prepared for anything except for things that interest them. you have married the wrong partner perhaps. I would suggest you both go for counselling and discuss it all over on this. I hope you can keep the baby.

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3y ago

yes true. if to keep the baby, the mother will be under stress too.. as there will be more conflicts and fight over the child.. the mother will have no help from husband and will be totally drained. if I'm in the position, I will consider to divorce. definitely not a good advice. but if I'm to live with a husband like this, I more concern on the child well bring and growing up phase. I rather sacrifice myself to give a better living environment for a innocent child than spoil the childhood which every child should deserve.

There is always no best time to deliver. You have to weigh the pro and cons of having baby. To be honest, I was having the same thoughts of abortion that time, but I am glad that I made a decision to keep and I am enjoying every single day with my girl now

A baby is a blessing. He or she will love you and be with you until you grow old unlike your boyfriend, he is uncertain on what he wants in the future. Keep the baby for this is the one who will for sure love you for the rest of your life.

Hey sis please don't abort. I am less than age 30 and have difficulties conceiving even for one. I feel very sad to hear news of abortion like its nothing. 😢 Please do consider keeping the baby.

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It's your body so you have to make the decision, don't let your fiancé influence you because abortion is a journey that only you would be going through.

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follow your heart I believe women nowadays able to live better without a irresponsible man not ready is not an excuse

Please keep! It is not easy to get pregnant!!

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