To keep or to terminate?

I’m 6weeks pregnant. Informed my fiancè about it last week & he wanted me to terminate the pregnancy. Reasons - he is not ready & unstable. His point, It is an early stage of pregnancy so terminating it is fine. 🙄 I’m a career woman in my 30s. It has been giving me a lot of stress then I began to spot/bleed at week 5. Doc puts me on 2 weeks progesterone to support the pregnancy.. I’m so confused & lost. #pleasehelp

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sorry to say this. but I think guys who say this is very heartless. the baby is also his flesh and blood. what if his parents abort him? guys will nv be prepared for anything except for things that interest them. you have married the wrong partner perhaps. I would suggest you both go for counselling and discuss it all over on this. I hope you can keep the baby.

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yes true. if to keep the baby, the mother will be under stress too.. as there will be more conflicts and fight over the child.. the mother will have no help from husband and will be totally drained. if I'm in the position, I will consider to divorce. definitely not a good advice. but if I'm to live with a husband like this, I more concern on the child well bring and growing up phase. I rather sacrifice myself to give a better living environment for a innocent child than spoil the childhood which every child should deserve.