initially your baby will be more attached to you instead of the father, more so because you spend most time with baby.
i think one thing that helped us was that my husband and i would sit together, holding baby in my arms. and he would gently stretch out his hands and i would place baby in them. we kept doing this for quite a few times, and i would also be there. it eased baby and made it more comfortable for my husband to carry baby.
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