If your and hubby's sched are not available, who represents you in a "Family Day” at your kid's school?

Depends on how old your child is and if you think he would be upset if none of his family is there. When my son was in Nursery 1, he was really looking forward to having me there... but this year (Nursery 2), he is more independent, and when we both missed a school event, he was totally cool with it and still had alot of fun. If I think he would feel out of place and sad that both mom and dad are not there, I may just let him skip school that day (provided that is a choice accessible to me).