Not deserving to be mom and wife :(

Question

Idk why habang tumatagal mas lumalala ang pagiging iretable ko bilang nanay at asawa unting likot galit at napapalo ko si baby. Pag kakatapos nun ma guilty ako. Ganon din ako sa asawa ko unting galaw nya mali na sa paningin ko. Minsan naiisip ko deserve ba nila ako? Nalulungkot ako dahil hindi ako ganito minsan may maiisip ako bagay na dapat magawa ko o masolusyonan ko kaagad. Feeling ko stress at marami ako problema pero pag marami ako nakakasama hindi naman masaya ako. Masaya ako pero bakit ganito di ko na alam kung paano bagohin ugali ko paano??!! 😭😭😭 please enlighten me. No hate po pls understand my situation pls give mw some advice!! Naiiyak ako while im sharing this confession. #advicepls #pleasehelp #1stimemom   #imsorrymybaby

Andy · Answer

Talk to your ob po mommy and ask for a referral for a psych, or book an appointment po if you already know one. This is not you, this is unfortunately one of the consequences of pregnancy, childbirth, and all the stresses from it. I dealt with it, too.