In laws/parents don't allow me to send my kid to IFC/CC

I am working full time and in laws and my own parents feel that I shouldn't be sending my kid to IFC at such a young age but they are still working too! No one to take care and yet I cannot send my own kid to IFC? Husband also feel that I shouldn't send our kid to IFC as he is still v young. Sigh, how like that?