Feel disappointed

I just want to find a place to share my feeling.. My husband is so addicted to his mobile phone been watching tik tok or playing games every day & every hr. Usual day after work I will rush back to buy dinner, pump bm, fetch my lo from infant care then change his clothes & make him sleep. After that I need to wash all the bottles & container, take my shower then have my dinner. My husband is more busier so I understand I can settle all these before he come back home. Everyday he come back home will just sit down & start using his phone to watch tik tok/fb or play games. Even having dinner also he only looking at his phone. I know he is stress & tired after work need to relax himself so I don’t stop him. Sometime I do feel tired too having the need to feed my lo during midnight (sometime he will feed lo too), wake up earlier to pump milk before work..but all these is what a mum should do I won’t blame anyone. What I’m disappointed was even during weekend which I think that’s the time we can spend more time with our lo. But he is still looking at his phone more than looking at our lo. When lo is crying for milk he will just continue playing his game & ignore his crying. At that time I really feel like walking to him & throw his phone away. I know my work is less stressful than his & I don’t earn as much as him. But having bb is what he always want & even ask for 2nd one. But I don’t think we are suitable to have a 2nd one with this situation. I don’t know isit that i’m overreact or what..I’ve been keeping all this in my heart for a long time & just want to say out..

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You are a good and understanding wife. Regardless of work stress and income, he should be more involve in spending time with you and lo. After all, he is your husband and father of the lo. Try talk to him and ask him to be more involve. At least let you have a break. Jia you.

2y ago

It is good to see that you have made a good start here, by sharing your feeling. Please don't bottle up as you will breakdown one day and that could be devastating. Share your thoughts with him and let him know you need his help and support. There is no supremacy in a relationship but respect. I think he will be more involve after you share your feeling with him. You are a capable lady but sometimes have to act weak in front of him.😉 He is a lucky man to have you as his wife.🙂