House husband

Question

May I know your insight mga mii regarding sa pagiging house husband. So were both 23 years old with 8mos old baby and ako lang degree holder, though nag titinda family nila ng perishable goods may pwesto sya kapag Wednesday and kaya kumita ng 4k in one day. Once a week lng yon and Im planning to work na. Gusto ng mom ko na kaya naman nila alagaan si baby dalasan lang nya tinda nya para both kame makapag work at makaipon. Gusto ko sana idea nya dahil gusto din namin makabukod pero si hub ang may ayaw. Is it bad being a house husband? I know negative iisipin ng ibang tao pero pano ba dapat ko gawin. Please advice, ftm here. Thankyouu mga mamii#advicepls #househusband

Tere SC · Answer

Hay naku, mommy... kung iisipin mo yung nga negative na iisipin or sasabihin ng mga tao, never kayo magkakaroon ng peace of mind. Trust me, regardless of what you do, negative people will always have something negative to say. Just do what you believe will be the best for your family, not only financially pero for the family's health din-- physically, psychologically, emotionally, spiritually... Personally, iba na panahon ngayon. If the dad is better at managing the household, and the mom can earn more income, there's no reason to stick with the traditional patriarchal system. Everything has its pros and cons. Having both parents work is more beneficial financially but at the expense of not being able to raise and guide your child how you intend to. Again, just do what you believe is for the best for YOUR family ☺️

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Anonymous

1y ago

gusto ko sana ganyan mindset mii pero iniisip ko kase yeah may point din mom ko, para mas mabilis kami makaipon at magka sariling bahay. I don't know which one is better 😥