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I feel you bro!! Let me share my personal experience (anonymously ;) I was petty much shocked to see the enthusiasm that my wife showed when she gave me the news. I was perplexed to go through all the books people recommended from amazon. To say the least, I had to talk to my counsellor from work who told me to focus and divide the problem into smaller parts and all would be well eventually. 1) Don't panic 2) Focus only on the now 3) Keep your wife healthy both mentally and physically. She is worried too. 4) Choose a good gynae if you haven't already and talk to her about your issues. 5) Talk to your colleagues who have been through similar journey. 6) Stay mentally strong for the both of you. Best of luck!!!