Can I survive without a helper?

I have a pair of 16 mo twins who need a lot of attention, and a newborn baby. Moving out from in law house to a 4 room flat soon. I do not like to have strangers (helper) at home. And I do not trust them in taking care of my kids. So I sent my twins to ifc and taking care of my newborn myself. Helper helps in the morning before twins go to school. And after kids come home. Ifc is not within walking distance. Do u tink it’s possible to do without a helper? Anyone with similar situations can share your experience? TIA!

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Are you a SAHM? If you are, yes, you can manage. When my children is at ifc or preschool, I will bath and feed the youngest. Put baby to bed, do housework and prepare lunch. Fetch children from pre-school, feed them, play for a while and get them to nap. A bit hectic but manageable

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7y ago

Are your kids around the same age? My elder twins still need to rock to sleep and still cannot self fed. And it’s hard when they are sick (sometimes u fall sick at the same time as well). And how do u fetch ur kids from preschool while ur youngest at home?

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