Emotional day ;(

Hi, I am abt 10 to 11 week. At my 1st apt is abt 9weeks, they just see GS and YS, no heartbeat & fetal pole. They ask me to visit again 2 week later which is next mon(2dec). However, since this monday i have abit of spotting. At 1st I think maybe it is normal, until today the spotting more than pass few days plus abit of blood clot and this make me worry. So i went to the nearest gynae clinic. They did the scan and same. No heartbeat & fetal pole. The min the dr said No HB & FP i have a bad feeling. The dr said i may have unhealhty pregnancy and give me 2 options. Either D&C or naturally misscarriage. I bust out during that time i heard that. But my husband told me to go KKH apt on next monday to seek for second opinion before we decide. I was so afraid and i don know what shld i do next as this was my 1st time. I feel so emotionally.