How many of you had a tough time connecting with your newborn?

I wouldn't say a 'tough' time but it felt difficult to be really attached to my newborn. Right after the baby was born, there were so many things to take care of -- breastfeeding round the clock, healing from childbirth, soothing a wailing baby, household chores. Add those crazy hormones on top. Where was the time to feel connected? Plus, it's such a life-changing event! One is never prepared enough! I also missed my old life -- going out at the drop of a hat, staying awake till late, getting up late. It took some months to get adjusted to have another being so dependent on you. As a side note, I think part of it comes from the society and media as well. We have been fed to think that we should be overtly doting mothers. We, as mothers, are expected to feel super-duper mushy love for our little ones. Personally, as my baby started getting more interactive and started recognizing me more and more, that's when I started understanding that hey, I'm the mom!

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