Hi mummies, is your child the only child? Are you trying to have a second one? As I cant decide to have another one or not. Lately my daughter told me that she is very bored as no one plays with her. I would like to have another one but too many thoughts and worries in my mind (eg. to send to infant care or to get maid, to start all over again, it is very tiring and beside I had a miscarriage last year). The fear is still there.

so many of us go through the same issue you know :) me and hubby were sure we don't want a second baby, as we were too close to our first born. we kept thinking and my daughter turned 5. finally she started pestering us a lot for a little sis or bro, and we thought of giving it a shot. i had a second daughter, just as we were wishing for, and i can't tell you what amazing friends they are for life :) of course having a second baby means a lot of adjustments all over again, but that's only for about the first year or so, and when you are already an experienced mom, you'll be able to handle everything with much more ease...