Hi mummies, is your child the only child? Are you trying to have a second one? As I cant decide to have another one or not. Lately my daughter told me that she is very bored as no one plays with her. I would like to have another one but too many thoughts and worries in my mind (eg. to send to infant care or to get maid, to start all over again, it is very tiring and beside I had a miscarriage last year). The fear is still there.

Yes it is tiring to start all over again and take care of the children. But when no.2 grows older and able to play with elder one you will see it is worth everything. My 2 kids will miss each other when they don't see each one even just separate for a short while. People always has this saying, sibling is the best gift that you can give to your child, which is true. There is always a way to solve a solution, choose the best one and most comfortable for you in term of child caring options.