Unexpected pregnancy

Hi guys! I’m currently on my 8th week na. I need your advice. Unexpected pregnancy ko and though I’m in the right age na po ako (28) shocking pa din sakin. As for my boyfriend, masaya naman po sya. I’m happy rin naman pero may pregnancy scare pa din. No one knows except my bf po na pregnant ako. First, hindi pa ko ready sabihin. 2nd, nakatira pa ko sa family ng boyfriend ko and soon will be moving out. Lastly, gusto ko muna i-keep sa 1st trimester ko. Nakapagpacheck up na ko sa OBGYNE and nag memedicate. Buti na lng nirecommend yung app na to ni Dra. may nakakausap ako. Anyway, sa tingin nyo po ba need ko na sabihin sa family members namin na pregnant ako? Natatakot kase ako sa reaction nila kahit matagal na ko nag moveout and matagal na kami ni bf. Di pa kase kami kasal and nagbibigay pa ko sa family ko ng money. Strict yung mom ko in a way na any minor inconvenience samin ng bf ko pinapauwi nya ko. #1stimemom

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Hi mommy. I think you should tell them na po. In my case po kasi, it took time before ko nasabi sa family ko about my pregnancy. 7 months na nung nasabi ko sa kanila. It was hard dealing with your pregnancy alone kasi wala kang ibang mapagsabihan maliban sa boyfriend mo.I even developed anxiety and depression dahil feeling ko nag iisa lang ako. Iba pa rin kasi talaga yung feeling na andun yung support and care ng family mo. If you are worried about them being disappointed in you, you dont have to. I mean yeah they have the right to do so. Ganun din nangyari sa akin. They were disappointed at first but eventually natanggap din nila. Parents will always love their children kahit ano mangyari. You should tell them mommy para naman you won't go through what i have gone through. It was really hard, i felt like giving up. Pero nung nasabi ko na sa family ko about my pregnancy, gumaan yung pakiramdam ko. So, think about it mommy. I'm praying for you. 😊

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5y ago

Hello mga Momsh! Thank you sa encouraging words and sharing your story. Binabasa ko lahat ng advice nyo and thankful talaga ako sa community na ‘to. Oo nga po now palang gusto ko na itanong yung pregnancy journey nila ☹️ Buti na lang may community tayo somehow guide.