Mum should sacrifice herself?

#FTM Hi all mums, Not sure if anyone of feel this way. When u decided to stop BF.why others mum make it sound like you a bad mum? You are not enough sacrificing yourself. You need full BM for 2 years then is the best mum. Being a mum you should do this and that. Need to prioritise your baby no matter what. You dont have enough sleep is a normal for mother. You should continue sacrifice like this. But deep my heart why no care about the mother? So Is ok for me to depressed and not be happy? Why cant happy mum and happy baby? I am not saying I need to treat my baby bad. Why just dont find a solution happy mummy and happy baby? So give FM baby will get sick?#firstbaby Why need to judge others mother?

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Totally understand! Ppl not close to me also ask why I don’t continue to BF after few months then even say is it bcos not enough milk supply. It’s super insulting can. My girl started mixed FM and BM since 2 months and now she’s 14 months. She is even stronger than those fed entirely on BM. FM has a lot of nutrients too! Don’t have to take in comments which are not helpful. Make your mental health and physical health a priority! Nobody truly knows what you’re going through. You must first take care of yourself well then you can take care of your baby. BF or not, most importantly is how we bring up our children. My friend’s brother fed BM but didn’t appear to be as smart and filial as my friend who was entirely on FM.

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2y ago

Omg totally agree!!!