Mum should sacrifice herself?

#FTM Hi all mums, Not sure if anyone of feel this way. When u decided to stop BF.why others mum make it sound like you a bad mum? You are not enough sacrificing yourself. You need full BM for 2 years then is the best mum. Being a mum you should do this and that. Need to prioritise your baby no matter what. You dont have enough sleep is a normal for mother. You should continue sacrifice like this. But deep my heart why no care about the mother? So Is ok for me to depressed and not be happy? Why cant happy mum and happy baby? I am not saying I need to treat my baby bad. Why just dont find a solution happy mummy and happy baby? So give FM baby will get sick?#firstbaby Why need to judge others mother?