Don’t stress about it. Yes everyone bump is different!
I don’t felt the kick as much , slight movements during 2nd trim. Only when I lay down then I can feel abit more.
Yes definitely will feel pressure on lower abdomen. Especially in 3rd trim. Totally have to sleep side ways . I felt breathless if I lay down facing up 🥲
Yes you can talk to your gynae about it. Most importantly baby is healthy
If you want to put on weight, take avocado, eat meat, durian ( 😛 but don’t over eat ) I had durians during 2nd trim lol