If you can't be kind, be quiet

"Everyone is going through their own battle you know nothing about. So, be kind. Always." Getting these responses were so ... Urggg. Can't find the right words to describe it. I've been nursing my newborn and it just so happened that he's asleep when it's time to change his nappy. I don't know what to do since I felt like it's already wet and soiled. I gave it a shot checking out with my friends and relatives but did not get answers outright. So, I resorted to get one here but to my surprise, got these answers instead. Sorry for asking stupid questions here. I guess only the smart questions could be posted here. And these people are the ones to give only smart answers who happened to run through my stupid question. EDITED: WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT MEAN ALOT, SO THANK YOU TO THOSE WHO CARED ENOUGH TO DROP BY AND GIVE COMMENTS. 💖 MAYBE I JUST DID NOT SEE TROLL ACCOUNTS WOULD EXIST IN THIS KIND OF PLATFORM. LIKE, GRABE. PATI DITO WALANG PATAWAD?! ~ ~ #1stimemom #firstbaby #theasianparentph

If you can't be kind, be quiet
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Super Mum

For me naman nothing wrong sa question mo mommy. As a first time mom kahit konting bagay lng nagwoworry tayo at d tayo sure kaya nag aask tayo sa iba. This is so sad kasi mismong kapwa mommy mo ang mga nagcocomment ng gnyan. To answer your previous question, yes po pwede palitan kahit tulog sila, gnagawa ko yun sa baby ko dahan2 lang kasi ayoko dn na mababad sa maduming diaper ang pwet ng baby ko at magging uncomfortable dn sya pag hndi napalitan.

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Me nga po nagcomment to lift yung loob ni mommy kasi hindi naman natin alam ang pinagdadaanan niya. I used the word common sense sa comment ko then may nagsumagot ba naman na, "its Commonsense, not common sense, etc., " then napagtanto ko tama lang yung pagkagamit ko. Anyway, be humble nalang. I know she is professional also like me pero kung sumagot, I don't consider her as professional.

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4y ago

ay.. nabasa ko itong convo nyo na 'to momsh😅

Pwede po palitan ng diaper ang babies even they are sleeping to avoid rashes, make sure nlng po na dahan dahan para hindi magising agad si baby sa pagkakatulog 😊 ignore mo nlng mommy yung mga rude na ganyan magsasagot 😅 kung walang magandang sasabihin, wag nlng magsalita para hindi makasakit ng feelings ng iba 😊 spread the love lang tayo, let's all be friendly here 💖

Magbasa pa

my mga masasama tlga ugali..feeling magaling..kaya minsan parang hirap mag tanong dito..🤣🤣🤣sana hindi na lang sila ng comment kung yan lang sasabihin...hindi nakakatulong...okay lang yan mommy...palitan mo ng diaper pag puno ng poop at wiwi..baka kasi mag ka rashes ang pwet..tutulog naman ulit yan si baby...baby ko nga mayat maya palit kahit tulog..

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Super Mum

Mommy hayaan mo na lang po mga nagrereply ng ganyan.. It's really tough maging mommy.. Dapat nga nagtutulungan tayo.. Hindi nanggaganyan.☹️ Sobrang dami ng negativity nangyayari sa paligid pati ba naman dito sa TAP app ang dami pa din mga toxic na tao😒 report niyo na lang po yung nagcocomment ng ganyan para mawalan sila ng option mag post ng anonymous😊

Magbasa pa

hay nako may na encounter din akong ganyan nakakakulo ng dugo . nag ask ako if okay lang ba muna di makapag pa check up kase madaming covid dito sa lugar namin . 1 month palang naman tummy ko abay ang sagot ba naman e kahit hanggang manganak nalang daw ako wag na mag pa check up 😠 . gigil ako hehehe

Magbasa pa

nothing wrong with the question,dillemma ko din yan sa firstborn ko since FTM ako,but then naisip ko kung kakasleep lng ni LO ang hirap na maistorbo agad ang sleep nya kaya di din ako makapgdecide if palitan ko ba gad,sana naman kung di kaya sagutin ng maayos better not to comment at all nalang,

ako kahit tulog si baby, pinapalitan ko diaper dahil madalas sya mag overflow lalo sa madaling araw, gumigising talaga ako para icheck sya kasi minsan sobrang puno ng diaper nya basa na damit at likod nya. Di namn pwede hayaan ng ganun. yaan mo sila mamsh mga bida bida lang yan mema sabi lang.

Super Mum

Agree with this! I'm just reminding everyone that those are against community guidelines of the app. "No bullying, name calling, and use of abusive words or remarks". TAP won't tolerate it because TAP is a non-judgmental app and we want to keep this app as a safe haven for everyone.

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Super Mum

this is sad... parenting is a continuous learning process... i agree, if you don't have nothing good to say, zip it! 🤐. i hope, as moms, lets continue to keep this app a safe place for all us, and take questions as curious and innocent as it is.

4y ago

I agree with you mommy Tanie😊