Even though I don’t feel like hitting my two year old, I end up hitting him. How do I make him behave?

2 years old i still a very young age to understand fully what is wrong and what is right. They are still playful and still learning. Needa be patient alwaes ok mummy? It is pretty handful but we dowanna raise a violent and emotionally disturbed generation. Hugs and talking respectfully will help the child to tone down and listen more i believe. Reminder to self too cz i have a 20mth old kid. But i will give my best to give her the best childhood like how my mum gave me 😊