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I can't sleep if my partner and I have some misunderstanding. We always tried to compromise just before going to bed. But beforehand, we need at least an hour of silence or separation from each other to at least get some air.
Yes we do. Sometimes both parties need some time to cool down over the night and the next day our heads are more clear to settle the issue.
it happens. but sometimes it’s better to cool down think it through by ourselves first instead of forcing to resolve it at that point in time
Yes all the time. Spouse can't be bothered to clear things up or make an effort to and always pretends nothing happened
yes, sometimes I get lazy to further argue especially when I am too tired. But we'll continue to settle our issue the next day
No, we always make it a point to resolve it before going to bed so that both of us can sleep peacefuilly without any tension.
Yes, because we prefer to calm down and sort out our feelings and perspectives before we speak.
yeah sometimes. but better to give each other space to think before saying something regretful
We do that sometimes, as we do not want to be impulsive and say things that hurt each other
Resolve before sleeping unless it's out of proportion (throwing knives at each other)