Do u get irritated or annoyed by some of your actions your eldest boy did? (Elder boy can be from 8-9 years onwards) perhaps at his age, u expect his behavior to be more mature but it is otherwise.

I've seen adults not acting their age and it annoys me because honestly, they have no excuse to act immature so I feel it's a bit unfair to be be annoyed when a child is acting like a child. Advise your child nicely if it bothers you too much. I say, don't sweat the small stuff and go easy on your child. 8-9 is still a young age, depending on what actions you are referring, it can't be that bad right?