Do u get irritated or annoyed by some of your actions your eldest boy did? (Elder boy can be from 8-9 years onwards) perhaps at his age, u expect his behavior to be more mature but it is otherwise.

I guess it's how we adults see things and how the children sees and intercept things in life. I do get annoyed with elder son doing things or even my cousin. Thinking that they are 10 years old, old enough to think properly. Take it easy. Even as an adult,we do get annoyed by other adults doing certain actions. The kid is still growing. Try explaining and talking nicely to your eldest boy