Husband likes to follow girls on social media

Am currently 35 weeks pregnant. Have been feeling so so down and uncomfortable that my husband likes to follow females on social media. I cant help but think its because my figure is big now and I look like a whale pregnant. He doesn’t seem attracted to me anymore although he still treats me nicely. We were last intimate months ago because he werent interested and complained that he is tired. Anyone’s hubs is like that? Truth be told, I went on his phone to unfollow a couple of female influencers he seems to particularly like just to see if he notices that they were gone. And then bam the next day he is following them again.

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The fact that its making u feel down and uncomfortable means it is something that needs to be addressed. YOUR EMOTIONS matters too and for a fact it matters most now that ure pregnant while having to deal with alot of hormonal changes that is also affecting how u feel. Please dont think that you are big now and thats the reason he doesnt seem to be attracted to you anymore. He made you pregnant so he have to be responsible for every single thing, your pregnancy, the baby, you and everything that matters to you. A happy mum is a happy family afterall. He cant just think for himself and do what he desires just because ure pregnant. Its never a reason. Talk to him about what disturbs you and is of a concern to you. Dont go to bed sad just because you decide to just keep it inside you, like some of the comments over here. You deserve to be heard, mummy. Your emotions matters, especially now.

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