Yes i will check the messages with my child just to make him also see that what can go wrong and how can he defend himself if there is any related issue

I will put across the message when i give her the phone that i am entitled to check randomly in order to give u a phone u want.

No. But will try to talk or encourage my child to say out or share their thoughts and feeling if anything happen.

i wont check because i need to learn how to trust them in order for me to gain their trust in me

Generally respect his/her privacy but if I feel he is in danger or bad company, I would

It is totally their privacy . but would monitor till they are mature enough I guess

I would probably check, especially if I have concerns or feel that something is off

Yes it’s important to make sure no cyber bullying is happening

Sometimes when my heart says so, call it mothers instinct

I will ask nicely first on who my child is chatting with.