weird feeling towards my partner

Actually, di ko ma gather ng maayos yung thoughts ko on how to make this simple and understandable. But here is the gist, si boyfie graduating palang while me, im working from home habang nag aalaga kay baby. So our set up as a parent to our child, 3 or 4 times a week sya pumupunta dito sa bahay. Pero parang madalas kailangan ko pa syang awayin or something para mapafeel ko saknya na 'hoy puntahan mo na ako, i need your help... I am tired as @#$%'. Naging routine na namin yung ganito. Away bati parang aso't pusa. But here is my question, pag ba nabawasan na rin ang quality time nyo as partners, normal bang makaramdam na parang na ffall out of love ka or kung ano man ang proper term for that. Di ko na rin kasi gusto yung awra ko as a partner na laging galit, maiinitin ang ulo, laging HB. Nakakapagod din naman talaga. Kaya nga parang ang pag kaka interpret ko is, AM I FEELING THE RIGHT THING, IS THIS THE DEFINITION OF 'FALL OUT OF LOVE'?

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Question is, ano ba yung reason bakit kelangan mo pa sya awayin para lang makauwi sa inyo? Baka naman gumagawa sya ng school work? Kung ganun, need mo sya isupport para maayos sya makatapos. If pumepetiks lang or what, well.. you need to make him understand na pamilyado na sya at may responsibilities as a father and as a partner. Sad to say pero may mga lalaki talaga na immature at kelangan iremind ng iremind. Ask yourself, is your love for him bigger than the issue/pagkukulang nya? If yes, you have to be patient and help him so he can help you - kahit away kayo ng away wag ka magsawa, kelangan tanggapin mo sya ng buo kasama flaws nya. If no, then you have to start learning how to live na wala sya. Not necessarily na hiwalay kayo.. yun bang tuloy parin ang araw nyo kahit wala sya sa inyo. Like if oras na kumain pero wala pa sya, edi kumain na kayong mag-iina wag na sya intayin. Wala ka magagawa kung ayaw talaga, mahirap pilitin ang taong ayaw.. but then give him an ultimatum. Makikita naman sa efforts nya kung gano kayo kahalaga. If wala talaga, I’m sure you know what to do..

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