weird feeling towards my partner

Actually, di ko ma gather ng maayos yung thoughts ko on how to make this simple and understandable. But here is the gist, si boyfie graduating palang while me, im working from home habang nag aalaga kay baby. So our set up as a parent to our child, 3 or 4 times a week sya pumupunta dito sa bahay. Pero parang madalas kailangan ko pa syang awayin or something para mapafeel ko saknya na 'hoy puntahan mo na ako, i need your help... I am tired as @#$%'. Naging routine na namin yung ganito. Away bati parang aso't pusa. But here is my question, pag ba nabawasan na rin ang quality time nyo as partners, normal bang makaramdam na parang na ffall out of love ka or kung ano man ang proper term for that. Di ko na rin kasi gusto yung awra ko as a partner na laging galit, maiinitin ang ulo, laging HB. Nakakapagod din naman talaga. Kaya nga parang ang pag kaka interpret ko is, AM I FEELING THE RIGHT THING, IS THIS THE DEFINITION OF 'FALL OUT OF LOVE'?

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Halu-halo na yan, mommy. Pagod, puyat, frustration and yung feeling na ikaw lahat. And aside from that, unstable pa din hormones mo kaya mayhem talaga yan kaya birnt out talaga yung feeling. Mafafallout ka talaga pag ganyan sa totoo lang but try to give it more time. Bigyan mo din ng space yung sarili kakaisip sa bf mo. Focus ka sa sarili and baby mo. You'll know naman if nafallout ka na once na nakapagadjust na yung body and mind mo. Anyway, i suggest to seek help from relatives para magkaron ka ng complete rest and Me time. Mas magbebenefit si baby kasi di niya maaabsorb yung negative and bad vibes mo. Pray lang for guidance. πŸ™

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