mi it's a good thing na aware ka sa emotion and attitude mo kasi in that way mas madali ka magcchange. I was like that too before ako ma preggy, lets say na super clingy ko na to the point na magpapaalam lang sya to eat out with workmates di na maipinta mukha ko hanggang sa mag away na kami ng todo.
Pero you know what i realize? Sometimes while we are waiting for our partners na magpakumbaba but in reality tayo din pala mismo ang dapat nauunang gumagawa nun.. Once i started lowering my pride and reflecting on my attitude at kung saan ba ko nang gagaling, dun ko nakita na it was bcos of my traumas pala on my past relationships kaya puno ako ng doubts, wala akong trust,super clingy, ginawa kong mundo ang partner ko which is a no no talaga. Eventually nakita ni hubby that i was changing and i saw how he was also changing parang what happened kasi is naging reflection namin ang isat isa so kung ano reaction nung isa ganun nadin yung reaction nung isa kaya nagcclash.
We are now happily married and expecting our first baby. Grabe yung changes lang sa relationship namin, we don't shout at each other anymore, we don't get pissed off about small things i don't get jealous na he doesn't go out that much nadin.
it's really on both of you how you will adjust and how much you want your relationship to work. I pray na maging okay kayo.
Magbasa pa