In this current situation, will husband able to be there during detailed scan? My appt is next week @ KKH

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Really depends on the person who do the scanning. I'm currently week 32 and so far only had one instance where hubby wasn't allowed. The sonographer was an Indian and to me it seems like everyone in there had a fight. They all were giving such negative vibes. It was my first scan where I could clearly see the baby in more human form. Until then no face n other organs were formed. Being first time parents my husband and I were super excited. And the excitement was killed by the staff there. My husband was allowed in for all scans until then so naturally I was expecting him that time too. So I asked the lady if my husband could come in. She vented all her frustration on me saying it's not allowed, and if she allows others may complaint that she let her race people in, she already had similar experience in the past and she don't want to repeat. I was stunned and felt like crying. All she could say was sorry mommy I can't allow now. The way she reacted was as if I cause her some harm. I apologized to her and told her it's our first time so I didn't want my husband to miss it. She then allowed him to come in after a while as if doing us some favour. When I told my husband he too said the situation outside was also intense. Every staff was taunting each other. I will never forget that lady 😆 But that aside rest all my scans were really good. Hubby could join me in too 😊

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5y ago

Except for that one time, rest all we went in together. The sonographer explained well too everytime 😊