Starting a Family

Hi! 1 year na kaming kasal ni mister and we’re planning to have a baby na sana pero hindi kami makapag decide on how is baby pag balik work na kami? Daddy is seaman and usually 9months contract sya. Ako naman government employee. We can’t give up our jobs since stable na yung income and we still have families to support on top. Ang hirap rin mag decide coz both of our families are in Mindanao and dito kami sa Metro Manila naka based. Considering kami ng Yaya but on the other side hesitant din kasi ang hirap ipagkatiwala ang baby… Any mommies na pinagdaanan to? Any insights po?? #pleasehelp #advicepls