Is this a red flag (am I too sensitive)?

1. Friends or family vaping within the vicinity of the baby (< 1m away) 2. Not returning the baby to the mum when baby starts crying 3. Passing the baby on to another person without asking the mum if she is okay with it first 4. Grandparent keeps asking the baby to watch tv together (tho baby’s eyesight probably not developed yet at 2m+) 5. Telling us to give excess BM to feed another person’s kid (not even relative) I am so tired from dealing with the above. I have brought up #1-4 as boundaries which I set and communicated to my husband repeatedly. But it’s still happening. Am I too sensitive or unreasonable? #advice #FTM #firsttimemom

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1. i will loudly tell my husband, can bring baby to outside the house. then when ppl finish smoking n no more smoke smell. i will loudly ask my hub, u can come back already. 2. baby cry. go over and carry baby away. 3. depends on situation. dont like it, remove baby urself 4. my dad does it when my baby was young too. i told him, thank u for helping to spoil my son's eyesight. but i did communicate too that parents and grandparents need to cooperate if not the baby will just find grandparents for all the "yes, can" when parents say no. 5. if in excess, can share if others want it and u dont mind giving it.

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