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I am nearing week 36 of pregnancy and I get emotional. Recently my husband got reunited with an old schoolmate and they chat all day and night using voice note. I do overhear their conversations and it's really just normal chatting. But somehow I can't help but feel uncomfortable that he's chatting from morning to midnight 2am with the girl. I know I shouldn't be petty over this, and he also explained that she's just a friend and there won't be any other relationship between them. But I just feel that his time for me has been taken away somehow because he replies so quickly to the girl, sometimes even ignoring what I am saying when we're having dinner or small talks. #advicepls #coupleissues #marriage #trust

This situation happened to me once, except that it was my hub and his colleague. Call me sensitive but I believe nowadays everyone started out with a Hi? We don’t just randomly see someone for the first time and have a kid (not referring to anyone). My husband can show me a black face but when talking to his colleague, can smile like he see $1M when texting. When that colleague fetches us (she drives) to his company gathering, he will sit infront and totally forgot about my existence at the back. When I talk, he just ignores me and continues to find topic to talk to her. What I did was I told my husband how I feel about the situation and explained to him my concerns. I asked him : “You may tell me you are someone who don’t and won’t cheat, but what if 5 years down the road if this situation continues, one day you just tell me I’m sorry I think I’m in love with her. Then what you want me to do? Are you very sure you won’t?” I didn’t force him to cut off that particular colleague, I just told him to think about it. Since it’s no longer about the two of us now..

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