Shamail Mulla, India

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Where can I have best chocolate desserts in Mumbai?
The Boston Cupcakery (Andheri)
Deliciae(Khar): The Rich Chocolate Strawberry Pastry
Rich Chocolate Strawberry Pastry At Deliciae, Khar
Is there any Cheesecake Factory ??

My husband does not want kids

My husband does not want kids and I do in the future. Every time we talk about it, we can never agree on any point. I am not sure how to resolve this or if it can be resolved at all?
The first thing is to get to the bottom of why: is it financial, tiredness, health, age, something else? Once you understand the cause you can discuss rationally and find a solution. Sometimes though,
Maybe he feels stress after having a baby. Maybe he worrying he couldn't raise his child well or worrying baby's health etc.. It is a commitment. Maybe bring it up when necessary but not purposely op
He will surely love them when he has them
Is it due to financial reasons? If it is, then I suggest the 2 of you sit down and talk about the numbers and come to a compromise about having children
Perhaps understand what’s his reason? My Husband was resistance due to financial but eventually finance works out and my boy is coming 1 years old.