Jes., Singapore

#pleasehelp my toddler's (2.5yo) been going to the same school with same classmates for nearly 1 year. For the past 2 weeks, she keep throwing tantrum in the morning and refusing to go to school, refusing to do healthchecks at the door and had to be carried in most of the time. But inside the school, she always play and laugh very well and is very happy when we go fetch her. For the same 2 weeks she also kept throwing tantrum most of the nights, refusing sleep and also nightmare. The only change is 1 teacher, whom she will hug so I guess it's not due to her. Not sure if anyone faces the same problem? We do have a set of routine before sleep - bath, fruits, milk, books, sleep. #pleasehelp #pleasehelp thanks.

Baby is 9 months old now. Refusing to eat her solids. Her solids includes chicken or pork porridge with various vege, fruit purees, fruit pieces, steams root vege like potatoes, sweet potatoes. But all of the above, she only eats lesser than 10 teaspoons. She prefers to finger feed instead of spoon. Our fingers, not hers. And prefers to eat our food. What to do? ?