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Planning to divorce

Hello, I know this is very sudden and literally just out of nowhere but I need some advice. I've been having difficulty communicating with my husband even before marriage and during pregnancy. Right now, my baby is 4 months going to be 5 and we're planning to get a divorce. I would like to know how would this affect the baby/kid in the future and if anyone of you grew up having parents who separated, please let me know your thoughts as well. Honestly, this ending is certainly not what I expected but it is needed as my husband is emotional abusive and does not communicate or even want to solve issues at all which is why I'd rather have the kid to myself as I do not want my baby to imitate his behaviours (hurling vulgarities/neglecting/manipulating/gaslighting) and attitude. Ofcourse there are always cons to having separated parents, but it'll be helpful to know some pros as well. Thank you in advanced :)

My parents are separated and growing up I feel that nothing really changed for me except that daddy doesn’t lives with us anymore. I still get the love and care from both of them, just from different places. And after both of them remarried, I get extra love from my step parents as well. To me, I would rather my parents seperate than to live together but non stop fighting/quarreling (which probably will affect the kid more). But just a heads up, custody is usually 50-50 now as they want both parents to take responsibility unless there is physical abuse etc then you can try to fight for full custody. Have you considered getting your husband to try out marriage counselling to see if it can help both of you before the last resort to divorce?

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Giving and selling away some brand new items

Hello! With every purchase, I will throw in some brand new disposable tommy tippee breast pads/pigeon & autumnz storage bags/pigeon botanical baby soap etc. Do feel free to ask me any question on the products listed below. I'm able to mail or meet up at my convenience. Thank you. (Brand new) Lansinoh 3 in 1 Breast Therapy (Brand new) Haakaa Hot & Cold Compression Pad (Brand new) Haakaa Gen 2 Silicone Breast Pump with Suction Base (Brand new) Madam Partum Milk Saver Pump (Brand new) Pigeon Storage Bags (Brand new) Autumnz Storage Bags (Brand new) Shapee 5oz BPA Free Storage Bags (Brand new) Post partum mesh panties (Brand new) Maymom 17mm flange (Used) Spectra Dual S Pump - only used for less than a month + warranty (Used) Spectra bottle

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Enfamil Gentlease

Hello, I have tried swirling in 45 degree water and majority of the powder dissolves but sometimes there are still clumps inside the bottle. Enfamil instructions is to shake, but I don't really want to shake as it introduce bubbles/gas into the milk. Any way that I can resolve this? Thank you 🙏🏻

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there r some FM that r really clumpy so i opt for one that isnt

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Bird Nest during pregnancy

Hi Mummies, is Kinohimitsu bird nest with snow lotus seed safe for pregnancy? It shows that it's safe from their website, however other articles suggest to avoid snow lotus seed during pregnancy and breast-feeding phase.

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