Paranoid Mom Here

My son is 8months and 5 days. His pedia said that his motorskills were advanced. So tinanong niya ako anong kayang sabihin ni LO. Common words palang naman like mama & papa. If he doesn’t like something, he’ll shake his head (meaning no/don’t) She’s pushing me to let my baby learn to talk at this age. Now, I am paranoid. Is there something wrong? Parang pinepressure ako na magsalita si baby agad. E sa pagkakaalam ko kasi 1yr old pa ang start. She’s worried na baka late talker while advance ang motorskills. I searched on the internet, related ata sa ASD yung ganon. So napaparanoid ako malala. Then I read somewhere on reddit na pag boy daw usually late talker talaga than baby girls. Can someone calm me or just give me answers that could help, so I know what to do.🥲